Your Mortgage Broker BFF’s Guide to Handling Divorce and Your Mortgage

Divorce is tough—I get it. When emotions are running high, dealing with your mortgage can feel overwhelming. But don’t worry, I’m here to help you navigate this tricky terrain and make sure you come out the other side with a solid plan.

First thing's first, let’s talk options.

When it comes to your mortgage during a divorce, there are a few paths you can take. Maybe one of you wants to keep the house and buy out the other’s share, or perhaps selling the property and splitting the proceeds is the better option.

If one of you plans to keep the home, refinancing the mortgage could be a smart move. This can help you buy out your ex-spouse’s share and possibly lower your monthly payments. We’ll look at current rates and see if this option works for you, all while making sure it aligns with your long-term financial goals.

If selling the home is the best route, I’ll help guide you through what that means for your mortgage. We’ll explore options like paying off the mortgage with the sale proceeds and discussing any potential penalties or fees. It’s all about making sure you’re prepared for what comes next.

My job is to help you protect your credit as well along the way because you may be looking to purchase or refinance down the road, I've got your best interests in mind!

Throughout this process, I'll be on your side and I'll do my best to make the mortgage paperwork the LEAST stressful part of this next chapter.

I know this process can feel overwhelming, but remember—you’ve got me on your team.

We’ll work through it step by step, making sure your mortgage is handled with care and you’re set up for a fresh start.

It’s about finding a solution that works for you, both now and in the future.

Whether you’re looking to stay in your home, sell it, or simply explore your options, I’m here to help.

Let’s talk, figure out the best path forward, and make sure your mortgage fits into your new chapter in life.

FAQ section

Frequently asked questions about Mortgages during Separation & Divorce.

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What are my mortgage options during a separation?

You typically have two main choices: keeping the house and refinancing to buy out your ex-spouse’s share, or selling the home and splitting the proceeds. Once you've decided on which path is best for you and your family, I will help you make it happen.

How does "buying out my ex" work?

Buying out your ex means one partner keeps the home while compensating the other for their share of the equity. While there are complexities on the legal side in determining the total buyout amount etc, this is the basic process for the financial side of the transaction.

  1. Determine Home Value: Get an appraisal or use a real estate agent to find the current market value of your home.

  2. Calculate Equity: Subtract the mortgage balance from the home’s value to find your equity. For example, if your home is worth $400,000 and you owe $250,000, your equity is $150,000.

  3. Decide on Buyout Amount: If one partner buys out the other, they typically pay half of the equity. So, your ex would receive $75,000 in our example.

  4. Refinance the Mortgage: You may need to refinance the mortgage in your name only, which involves applying for a new loan to pay off the existing one and fund the buyout.

  5. Legal Agreements: Have a lawyer draft a separation agreement to document the terms of the buyout, including property transfer details.

  6. Close the Deal: Sign the paperwork to finalize the buyout, including the discharge of the existing mortgage and the new mortgage agreement.

  7. Transfer of Ownership: Once completed, your ex’s name will be removed from both the mortgage and the title, making you the sole owner!

I’m here to guide you through each step, ensuring the process is smooth and straightforward!

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How does refinancing work if I want to keep the house?

Refinancing allows you to pay off the existing mortgage and create a new one in your name only. This can help you buy out your ex’s share and potentially lower your monthly payments, making it easier to move forward.

What if selling the house is the best option for us?

If selling is the way to go, I’ll guide you through the process. This includes paying off the mortgage with the sale proceeds and addressing any penalties or fees. I’m here to make sure you know what to expect!

How can I protect my credit during this process?

I’ll work with you to protect your credit throughout the divorce and mortgage transition. This is essential, especially if you plan to purchase or refinance in the future. We’ll keep your long-term financial health in mind!

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